When you’re held well, you make better decisions.
We collaborate only with people and organisations who care deeply about doing separation with integrity and compassion.
Together, we offer wrap-around support so you feel seen, safe and supported at every step.
N.B. Some, but not all, of the following providers give us a small referral payment if you choose to work with them. That never affects our decision on whether to recommend them, or even partner with them. We've included these details below to be completely honest and transparent with you, as we always are.
Any payments we receive help us to provide free resources, workshops and more, and to support our free WhatsApp group, which we receive no funding for.
Please use the links here, and mention Family Flow to anyone you speak to.
Legal Services
The Family Law Consultant
Rhiannon Compton is a solicitor and Law Society Accredited Expert known for her calm, caring and genuinely supportive approach to family law.
In her work as The Family Law Consultant, she guides clients through the legal side of separation with clarity and compassion, offering both 1:1 advice and expertly drafted documents and statements. Rhiannon works in a way that reduces fear and complexity, helping you feel steady, informed and supported at every step.
We partner with Rhiannon especially in our Reclaim & Rise VIP + Legal and Together In Divorce + Support services.
Her services are transparent and affordable. Working with Rhiannon means accessing high-quality legal expertise delivered with warmth, patience and a real commitment to your wellbeing.
Family Flow may receive a 5% referral payment if you choose to work with The Family Law Consultant.
Amicable
Create agreements together, not against each other.
Amicable guides the process, and Family Flow supports the people, helping clients stay grounded, navigate triggers and power imbalances so constructive decisions can be made and the amicable process isn't delayed or derailed.
Book a call with us to discuss if Amicable is the right fit for you.
Family Flow may receive a 10% referral fee if you choose to work with Amicable.
Family Law Cafe
Modern family law, simplified.
A fixed-fee legal service with a secure online portal that keeps everything organised. Family Flow partners with Family Law Cafe so clients get clear legal strategy alongside trauma-aware support.
Quickie Divorce
Simple, fixed-fee divorce and financial consent order drafting and filing.
An online platform that handles document preparation and court submission for uncontested divorces, with legal consultations available at reduced rates if needed. Family Flow recommends it for clients who are in broad agreement and whose focus is getting the divorce application sorted efficiently, with our support available around the emotional, power-aware and financial elements.
Quickie Divorce offers Family Flow clients and contacts a 25% discount, and Family Flow may receive a 10% referral fee if you choose to use their service.
Financial Service Providers
Octopus Money
At Family Flow, we believe managing your finances should be empowering, not overwhelming. That's why we've partnered with Octopus Money to help you build a clear, personalised plan for your financial future.
By combining expert human guidance with smart digital tools, Octopus Money is making financial planning more personal, more accessible and more effective. With a clear financial forecast, expert 1-to-1 support and a simple way to manage your investments, you'll feel confident you're making the right decisions with your money.
Octopus Money offers Family Flow clients and contacts a 10% discount, and Family Flow may receive a small fixed fee, starting at £75 and increasing according to the value of assets under management, if you become a long-term Octopus client with at least £100k of assets under management.
Phil O’Connor, On Divorce
Financial Divorce Neutral & Pensions Expert
Phil specialises in the financial side of divorce, helping clients make better-informed decisions on all marital assets, especially pensions, but also investments and property. As a Resolution Accredited Independent Financial Adviser since 2007, he works as a joint expert, single expert or neutral, supporting clients, mediators and family lawyers across the UK, particularly where pension sharing is involved.
Guided Financial
Kim Sare FPFS, founder of Guided Financial, partners with Family Flow to help you feel clearer and more in control of your finances through divorce and will work with you to build a long-term plan for your future financial freedom. She provides independent, regulated advice and was recognised as Financial Adviser of the Year in 2025 by Professional Adviser and as a Top Rated Adviser by The Times in 2025 and 2026. She works with only a small number of clients, allowing her to deliver a bespoke service and build lasting relationships. If you’d value having a trusted financial adviser beside you as you rebuild, register your interest in working with Kim by clicking on the visit partner link.
Needs Met
Your Needs Met helps you understand what's financially possible after separation, specifically when it comes to housing, so you can plan where you'll live with clarity and confidence.
It's a free, anonymous tool: answer a simple questionnaire about your finances and housing needs, and Needs Met shows you your options and how the numbers could work to make them happen. Want more detail? A fuller report is available for a small one-off fee, and Needs Met can connect you with vetted experts for anything further, from pensions to legal advice. Currently available for those separating in England and Wales.
Evolution Finance
Rebecca Robertson provides independent financial advice specifically for women going through divorce, unbiased, practical, and focused on your best interests, so you can understand your options clearly and decide with confidence.
Whether it's dividing assets, securing your home, protecting your children's future, or planning for retirement, Rebecca works with you to build a strategy that supports your independence and long-term security. Because divorce isn't just about dividing the past, it's about building the future you deserve.
James Pinder, PF Financial
Liz's very own Mortgage Adviser, and our go-to for Mortgage Capacity Reports, which are often an essential element of sorting the financials. James, Director and Independent Mortgage Adviser at PF Financial, produces the reports courts and solicitors rely on to establish what you can realistically afford to borrow post-divorce, giving your financial settlement real credibility.
A small fixed referral fee is paid to Family Flow for mortgage capacity reports, and if any mortgages are arranged through PF Financial. This comes from PF Financial's own referral arrangement and doesn't impact the independent advice you receive.
Pensions
The PODE
Pensions can be one of the most valuable marital assets in divorce, but working out how to share them can feel overwhelming, so they’re often overlooked or split unfairly. Co-founded by award-winning financial adviser Kim Sare, The PODE shows you the long-term impact of your pension sharing options, helping you make clear informed decisions and achieve a fairer settlement. The PODE partners with Family Flow to offer full, court-ready pension sharing reports, with or without offsetting analysis as well as a PODE Lite report for more straightforward cases. Once instructed, The PODE works impartially with both parties as well as your legal or financial representatives. Take the first step with The PODE’s free two-minute online assessment to see whether you might benefit from expert input.
PODE expert - On Divorce
Pensions are often the biggest asset in a divorce, and the easiest to get wrong. PODE.expert is a calm, jargon-free place to make sense of them: a free two-minute check tells you whether your situation really needs a pensions expert, and a vetted directory helps you find the right one if it does. Clarity before the decisions you can't undo.
FairSplit
– pension sharing and offsetting calculator
FairSplit is an online pension calculation tool designed to help separating couples and family law professionals explore pension sharing and offsetting options quickly and proportionately.
Using pension information for both parties, it provides an instant indication of the pension share that may equalise retirement income, alongside an indicative pension offsetting value. Results can be downloaded in a clear “Without Prejudice” report.
FairSplit uses methodology aligned with the Pension Advisory Group’s PAG2 guidance and is intended to support early-stage discussions and non-court dispute resolution. It does not provide financial or legal advice or replace a Pension on Divorce Expert where specialist evidence is required.
Family Flow customers can use the code 'FamilyFlow10' to receive 10% off the usual £250 cost, reducing the price to £225 per case.
Mediation
John Hind, Compass Mediation
Our Family Mediation Team - Compass Resolution
John E Hind, LLB (Hons). FMCA is an accredited family mediator, Divorce Coach, Former Solicitor including Collaborative Practitioner (over 20 years), NLP and NVC practitioner. John is the Founder and Director of Compass Resolution and author of the Divorce Manual, he has been training lawyers, coaches and therapists in conflict resolution skills for 18 years. John specialises in complex financial situations following separation and divorce as well as Co-parenting work.
Other Friends of Family Flow
Our Family Wizard
Separated? OurFamilyWizard helps you co-parent with less stress, from schedules and messages to expense tracking and secure file storage. It's widely recommended by family courts because it keeps communication organised, transparent and child-focused. At Family Flow, we use it so our clients can feel on top of things, create calm boundaries, and support their children more effectively.
Aimee Says
An AI companion for survivors of relationship abuse.
A confidential platform that helps people recognise abuse, gather evidence, and build a secure document and file system. Family Flow partners with Aimee Says to provide safe, trauma-informed support around the clock.